Imagine getting all dressed up and going out for the evening. Come on, come out with us at Third Millennium Man, we’re buying the drinks. Anyway, over there in the corner you see the most beautiful woman you have ever seen in your life. Everything about her is perfect. She’s on her own. You should go and introduce yourself. Go and talk to her. Yet for some reason, you sit there paralysed.
You can’t move, you cannot get up and speak to her. Something is holding you back. You start to panic and worry about what you’re going to say. You worry about looking stupid. Then you worry about being rejected. And before you can summon the courage, somebody else beats you to it and she ends up in the company of another man. You go home on your own, dejected. If any of that scenario sounds familiar, old friend, then you have first-hand experience of Approach Anxiety. Well, you are not alone. At some point or another, we’ve all experienced this. But it can be fixed.
Conquering Approach Anxiety
It does not have to be this way. Yes it’s a common problem amongst men, but not many men are aware that there is a solution. The majority of men continue to struggle with it, but by defeating Approach Anxiety you automatically move into the top 5%.
Speaking to that beautiful woman feels strange because it’s not normal for you, so familiarising yourself with the experience, normalising it, is the way to go. You feel like there’s so much at risk, which is why you panic. Then read on, sir, and you’ll find out how these fears have absolutely no basis.
Approach Anxiety is simply a fear of rejection. And your friends here at Third Millennium Man have a way to help you past it.
Approach Anxiety is all that stands between you and enjoying the company of beautiful, charming ladies – making the most of every dating and every sexual opportunity that ever comes your way. Lesser men never get over Approach Anxiety and end up settling for a lesser partner than they deserve, or – even worse – tolerate a toxic or abusive relationship because they believe that’s all they are going to get. As problems go, I’d say that’s a pretty big one. And this is what you can do to correct it.
Step One
The first thing we do is to start small. This is how you would approach a new exercise in order to avoid injury – you make sure you have the correct form before lifting the heavy weights, so let’s apply the same caution here. Approach Anxiety can be defeated but we’re going to take you through it small steps, making sure the fundamentals are correct before we go any further.